Is Chivalry Dead? Hear From A Male Student’s Perspective
As Liberty students, and even more, as Christians, we are called to follow Christ’s example of serving others. And as men of God, manhood consists of integrity, diligence and bravery.
There are many portraits depicting brave knights going to battle, and for many years they were believed to be the ideal representation of proper masculinity.
Chivalry has historically been illustrated in the lines and pictures of children’s novels, namely the character of Sir. Lancelot and in classic stories like “The Canterbury Tales.” These classic narratives took place throughout Europe, with chronicles of adventure and these noble servants operating with a higher purpose in mind.
According to History.com the word chivalry originated from the Medieval Latin word caballarius, which means “horseman.” Aside from the fictional portrayals of these brave knights, the reality of their reputation is surprising at times. These knights may have looked like heroes on the surface, but were occasionally prone to violence and committing indecent acts such as looting and burning buildings.
Today, this phrase has not been altogether eliminated, but instead seen in a different light. In different eras of history, men were portrayed as heroes galivanting across magical lands in the pages of romance novels. This ideal now intertwines with modern society, with an emphasis of courtesy for others over brutal strength and power.
Berkley International notes that chivalry’s purpose is to show the enduring honor and respect that men should hold for women. It consists of simple gestures, such as holding the door, giving a thoughtful gift or covering the bill on a date. Outside of dating and romantic relationships, chivalry can also involve a man treating his elders respectfully, by putting their needs above his own.
Chivalry is not a dead concept but struggles to emerge from underneath the negative connotations it has become buried beneath. Many people no longer believe chivalry belongs in society and that equality is the only path to progress. However, being truly chivalrous does not take away that equality or elevate one group of people over another.
The evidential signs of a true man should not include physical strength or superiority. God intended for men to be leaders who represent honor and grace to everyone.
There is nothing more honorable and respectable than a man valuing the lives of those around him, while simultaneously viewing women as equal, contributing members of our society. Men should continue to act courteously and genuinely towards others. That attitude represents the best of humanity.
As Christians, we need to show Jesus to everyone in both actions and speech.
Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”
Today’s definition of chivalry should align itself with that verse and come from a humble perspective. Helping others and standing up for those in need is a biblical practice for all believers. At Liberty, we should represent Christ by demonstrating those principles every day.
Although the knights of the past were not perfect, and at times they leaned towards violence rather than caring for those around them, chivalry is one of the few things to be learned from these soldiers of the past. Today, the goal is to emulate their best practices: of putting others first and seeking a better future where we strive to maintain romantic and interpersonal respect in relationships.
Sanford is an opinion reporter for the Liberty Champion.