Kaitlyn's Blog

Surviving the End of the Semester

April 3, 2014

With the semester nearing its end, and classes starting to get crazier and more intense, I need some motivation this weekend to get my work done!

Over the past four semesters at Liberty, I’ve slowly learned some of the ways that work best for me to get things done. So in the spirit of upcoming final exams, projects, and presentations, here are some of my best study tips!

1. Figure out what works for you. Everyone learns differently, and some tips will work better for some people. I personally need to make a study playlist that is all instrumental - I’m an auditory learner that will totally get distracted by the lyrics to any song instead of writing my paper or studying for a test. Some people can listen to their favorite music, but some people need absolute silence. Some people study best with others, but some people need to be alone to focus. Figure out what works for you and use it to get the most out of your studying.

2. Pace Yourself. If you have two tests, a project, and three papers to do in two days, don’t plan on doing them all in one sitting. You’ll get so frustrated and bored you’ll inevitably end up on Facebook or Pinterest instead of getting work done. Give yourself hourly breaks that let you stretch your legs, get some food, or do something mindless for a couple minutes. Breaking up your study schedule will help you be more productive during the times you’re actually studying and keep you from going crazy.

3. Use Study Tools. Make flashcards, take practice tests, use a million different colors of gel pens. Do what you can to make studying fun and you’ll learn more while you’re at it. I love making flashcards with fun colors and my own study guides with major points from the text.

4. Stay Healthy. During exam time, it’s easy to justify endless energy drinks, junk food, and 2 A.M. cram sessions. But taking care of your body by getting plenty of sleep and eating normally will help you stay on a healthy schedule that will better prepare you for your exams.

5. Go to Class. It seems intuitive, but a lot of people start thinking that the best way to do well on exams is to sleep or study instead of going to class. However, in-class instruction can be the most valuable learning time you have! Instead of teaching yourself, learning from a knowledgeable professor with fellow classmates helps you process information and learn things that might not be in the textbook. 

6. Have Fun! For me, it’s easy to get stressed out and forget that my Lord and Savior is in control of everything, including my exams. So in the midst of your studying, don’t forget to relax, spend some time with the Lord, and take a break to have some fun.


Leaving a Legacy

March 20, 2014

This past weekend, the Liberty debate team had its last tournament (with the entire team) for the season. Not only was is this last full-squad tournament memorable because of it was the last tournament the whole team would be competing together, but this year, the last tournament was held on Liberty’s campus! It was a great weekend for our team, but it was also a good opportunity to look back at our season and think about how far we’ve all come and how we’ve grown as a team. But amid the successes, the losses, and the nostalgic musings, I kept thinking of how quickly my time at Liberty was passing by. In only a few weeks, I will be halfway done! And for some reason, a few lines from a really old Nichole Nordeman song I loved in middle school kept coming to mind.


I don't have to look too far or too long awhile

To make a lengthy list of all that I enjoy

It's an accumulating trinket and a treasure pile

Where moth and rust, thieves and such will soon enough destroy


Not well traveled, not well read, not well-to-do or well bred

Just want to hear instead, "Well Done" good and faithful one...


I love debate with all my heart, and I am so incredibly thankful and blessed that Liberty has given me the incredible opportunity to travel, compete, and grow and improve at something I love this much. But sometimes I need a continuous, firm reminder that even those things that God blesses me with are temporary and meaningless when compared to the love and security He gives me and the passion and purpose of HIS that I am to pursue.


After this stressful weekend, I spent some time listening to this old favorite song, just to hear it’s fantastic reminder:


I want to leave a legacy

How will they remember me?

Did I choose to love? Did I point to You enough to make a mark on things?

I want to leave an offering,

A child of mercy and grace who

blessed your name unapologetically

And leave that kind of legacy.


The world applauds my driven nature, my single-minded focus, my motivation and ambition. The Lord wants more for me.

 He doesn’t give me the things that are not good for me. And He always knows best.

When I leave Liberty, I don’t want my “legacy” to be winning debates, doing lots of work, or even being a “good person.” I want to point people to my Creator. I want to choose to love. I want to leave an offering to the Lord at the place that He has blessed me in this way. I want to bless His Name unapologetically. 


I can't believe it's been almost two years since I came to Liberty!


Taking A Weekend Off

March 7, 2014

Sometimes, in the midst of a crazy semester, you need to take a weekend off! So instead of getting as much homework done as I should have, I spent last weekend with my lovely friend Grace and her family at her home in North Carolina. We took off after class on Friday to her parent’s house and spent the night relaxing and watching movies- the perfect solution to a week full of work and classes! The next day we got to see her former high school’s musical production before heading back to campus on Sunday morning to finish up homework and get ready for another hectic week.

Grace and I taking a quick selfie before the show starts! Her former high school and their Director of Fine Arts (Grace's dad!) did an incredible job in their production.

Gracie was on Liberty’s debate team with me last year, but this year she got a job and focused on school and graduating early. Luckily, I got to live with her this year, and she has been such a joy in my life! Balancing everything can be stressful, but finding people that motivate you to work hard when you need to and rest when you need it are a continual blessing.

Gracie and I at Christmas last year!

Recently, I got to celebrate two of the people Liberty has brought into my life by spending some time at my parent’s home in sunny Florida - Grace and Meagan.


Gracie and I at the beach in Cocoa Beach, Florida!

These two women have been hugely influential in my time at Liberty and each is going such big places under the direction of their Lord!

All three of us! 

I hope and pray that all of you at Liberty and considering attending invest in people that will invest in you, growing together towards a greater understanding of our Lord Jesus Christ! 


A Long Way Off

February 27, 2014

As anyone will likely tell you, each semester at Liberty has seemed to pass faster than the last. I can’t believe we’re nearing halfway through the spring semester, and I definitely can’t believe I am nearing halfway through my time at Liberty. Just to give you a quick glimpse - here’s what the last few weeks have been like:

Pizza Night- we've started a semi-weekly tradition of making homemade pizza at Meagan's house!

Along with the pizza. we tried our hand at Minion cookies!

After a long tournament, trying to stay awake and do homework can be close to impossible.

The beginning of this semester was incredibly hectic - I had a string of debate tournaments, classes to catch up on, work to do, and I was struggling to keep it all in balance. Over Christmas break, I had some serious conversations with God about reorganizing my priorities and keeping Him at the center of my life. But when I got back to school, keeping Him at the center became harder and harder as other things vied for my undivided attention. What frustrated me the most, though, was that I felt like such a failure - like every time I made right with God, I messed up again. It felt like I was still so far away from God and was constantly having to repent and start the process over again.

But in the process of this turmoil, I watched Kyle Idleman speak at Convocation on Wednesday. (Watch it here, it's incredible.) His message hit me hard- I had been so focused on how God could use me in debate, at school, and in the world at large, that I was not focusing on what still needed to be done in me. But one small line of the passage Kyle read from hit me even harder- “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.” (Luke 15:20)

I was floored.

In our world of sound byte sermons and 30-second testimonies, one thing I struggle with the most is that I keep messing up. My testimony is not an open and shut case. I’ve hit the floor, crying and confessing and convicted, a million times. It’s not that I don’t learn or that it’s not genuine. It’s that I’m not perfect, and I keep messing up. I’m still a long way off. And that’s why that rather insignificant part of the verse hit me so hard - while he was still a long way off, his Father ran to him. He didn’t wait until he had gotten himself together. He didn’t wait until he had fixed all his mistakes once and for all. He didn’t even wait for him to finish his walk of shame back to his parent’s house. He was so filled with compassion at the sight of his son’s choice to come back to him that he ran to him.

My perfectionist self is slowly coming to grips with the reality that I’m not going to have it all together so long as I live on this earth. Like Kyle preached, there are times I need to be faced with the sin I’m ignoring and be convicted to the point of tears in order to shake my complacent and selfish attitude and wake up to the reality of my depravity and the depth of His unfailing Grace. And that needs to happen a lot more than once. But I can rest in the assurance that my Father loves me enough to come running while I'm still a long way off.

I hope and pray that everyone is surviving the semester, and keeping His promises at the center of their hectic schedules!


Reflecting on a Restful Break

February 4, 2014

It’s only a week into the new semester, and I already feel like I’m behind! I got back to school last week, and within a few days, I had to pack up again and head to the Naval Academy for a debate tournament. The tournament was amazing, and our team won two divisions- and my partner and I won one of them!

My wonderful partner Ana and I!

Now that I’m getting back into the swing of classes, work, and debate, I’m also looking back at the amazing winter break I had!

Over break, my family and I traveled to Colombo, Sri Lanka! For those of you that don’t know, Sri Lanka is a small island off the southern coast of India. My aunt and uncle are serving the Lord in Sri Lanka, and we had the incredible opportunity to visit them.

Hiking through the gorgeous tea plantations.

While we were in Sri Lanka, we hiked through tea plantations, shopped, and had high tea at a beautiful British hotel. It was an amazing trip, where my family and I got to witness God’s beautiful creation and His love for people on the other side of the world.

The beautiful mountains and villages in Sri Lanka.

Some of God's cutest creations! 

It also gave me a lot of time to talk to Jesus, and sort out my priorities in the middle of what has been an incredibly busy and challenging school year. Sometimes life can get so overwhelming, and I personally get lost in the business of balancing all of the responsibilities I have. It’s a wonderful gift from God to spend some time away from your worries and distractions and get to spend time refocusing your hear and your mind.

The might of the Lord displayed in such stunning and creative ways!

Our 21 hour layover in Dubai would not be complete without some shopping!

My family enjoying God's creation in Sri Lanka.

I hope everyone had an amazing break and a great start to this new semester!